Rebekah
As it rushes by we subsided from our
conversation and look at the anonymous showings of life from strangers. Looking
through the marks, beneath it, and into our own visions. It passes quickly it feels as if it’s racing against
the clock. For three minutes we sit in
the car, looking at the end of the bud, as the flicker of light almost burned
out. The soaring passed us. The gates in front of us make us take a
moment on our journey to stop and think abstractly. It’s a nice break, that’s for sure. It’s magical.
We go from crossing to crossing hoping that we would be stopped by
something we couldn’t control. Sure, it
did push our arrival back forty-five minutes, but at this point we did not
care.
We
tried to escape from what we did not want to face. The fire was hot and the feeling of
comprehension was lost, about an hour ago too.
As we talked before, we were going to enter and leave together
regardless of the results. It feels as
if time is actually standing still for a moment. This moment though, is something I will want
to scar over as quickly as possible. I
kept hearing a thought in my head over and over again. “Just let go, and let it be.” All that did was gave me the urge to stand
up and scream out John Lennon’s lyrics.
My mind tends to do that. Bottle
the unexpected and damned in the back and then cover up by ensuring that the
world keeps moving. As much as I want to
change this moment neither of us had the power to do so. It was if that fork in the road finally came
and the decision was either to understand or forget.
I choose to stand in the middle weighing
out the pros and cons, since I clearly am the logical thinker. Only realizing that it hurt more, so now, I
had come to the conclusion to settle, then to forget.
How
could the last eight years be such a lie?
I guess that’s the thing about life that we do not get told when we are
young. That life is continuous and
endless events that are ever so changing.
One moment you could be headfirst only to realize that just your toes
are touching. As we sit here in the mild
air of a September night, we looked up to the stars. I think we are looking for some kind of sign,
I mean, isn’t that what everyone does when they feel vulnerable and want to
escape? Road signs tell us where to go
everyday, why can’t the stars tell us logical explanations for the emotional
and surprised equations?
At
this point, we are realizing that the bar is there; right above us. All we had to do was take a leap, close our
eyes, and pray that we would not fall down.
The moment we reached, it was if the bar had disappeared. It reminded me of something I read. It immediately took me back to when I was a
junior in high school. The passage was
read aloud from Daniel Quinn’s work of art, “Ishmael”.
“A few years ago you must have been a child at
the time, so you may
not remember it many young people of this country had the same impression. They made an ingenuous
and disorganized
effort to escape from captivity but ultimately failed,
because they were unable to find the bars of the cage.”
We
were not going to find the bars of our cage tonight. We were not going to find them in the near
future either. The saddest part is that we believed that we ever could. Honestly, how could we ever find them if we
did not know what they looked like? They were not grey or silver with rounded
edges. They were not gold with soft tops
and sparkles inside the metal when sun shined on them. Something had told us that night that we
would find it in the most ordinary of moments, when the noise would settle and
the quiet would fill.
My
sister and I sat and listened to lies that we were being told. It’s like the lie your parents tell you when
you’re young that your cat went on vacation.
Only this was no vacation, only the mere beginning of the end of the
line. When something terrible happens to
you, some mourn and try to understand the horror of an act of life. Others, slip into and overstate where they
operate at a faster rate, overcome sleep deprivation, recant food, and mostly
look into the simplest of objects but turn it into a whole new story. As we continued to stare at the grey and
transparent smoke that came off of each dark red coal we began to think about
the time when we were little. Jumping as
high as we would off the trampoline and trying to be invincible. We were kids,
and that’s what we did. You feel that
life will always catch you, or at least your sister would. We knew at that very moment, no one would
catch us from this terrible fall. We
would slowly have to let go, and then begin to stand on two feet.
I
think at one point or another the story began to get old. Relic.
Rose Kennedy said, “It has been said, ‘time heals all wounds.’ I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity,
covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. But it is never gone.” Rose Kennedy was correct. Two and half years later, every time we get
stop for a train we still remember that mild September air. We remember the abstract and anonymous signs
the people wrote on the trains. I will
remember the cigarette, and how it was slowly burning out in the cracked
window. To think and ponder this day is
as to think of your first heartbreak.
It’s still fresh, it still hurts and time, time won’t even heal the
wounds of the lost.